[Java] AllocationListener should be called during ownership transferring

If we transfer balance of buffer1 from allocator1 to allocator2, onRelease() should be called from allocator1.listener as well as the case that buffer1 is closed without transferring.

**Reporter**: [Hongze Zhang](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-14923) / @zhztheplayer
#### PRs and other links:
- [GitHub Pull Request apache/arrow#11800](https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/11800)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-14923](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-14923). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

割り当てと所有権移転の実装を確認し、その後、既存の作業について PR #11800 を調査してください。buffer1 の所有権が allocator2 に移転するときに、buffer1 を移転せずに閉じた場合と同様に allocator1.listener が onRelease() を受け取れば完了です。

索引モデルが issue の本文から書いたものです。