[CI][Java] Remove excluded unstable tests when building java-jars.

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

When we are builiding java-jars we are currently using the following exclusions:
```
exclude_tests="${exclude_tests}|arrow-acero-asof-join-node-test"
exclude_tests="${exclude_tests}|arrow-acero-hash-join-node-test"
```
We should remove those once: https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/36482 is solved.

### Component(s)

Continuous Integration, Java

首先定位组装 exclude_tests 的 java-jars 构建配置，并确认这两个排除项仍然存在。检查 Apache Arrow issue 36482 是否已解决，然后移除 arrow-acero-asof-join-node-test 和 arrow-acero-hash-join-node-test 排除项，并验证 java-jars 构建。

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