Docs / UX: what's the difference between "queued" and "pending" messages?

## Summary
The CLI surfaces two distinct concepts — "queued" messages and "pending" messages — without explaining how they differ. From the user's perspective they look like the same thing (a message you've typed but the agent hasn't processed yet).

## Questions to resolve
- Is there a meaningful behavioral difference (lifecycle, when each is flushed, when each can be cancelled)?
- If yes: please document it in `/help` and in the on-screen labels (e.g. tooltip on the queue indicator).
- If no: please unify the terminology to a single word in the UI.

## Why this matters
Existing issues about queued-message editing/cancellation (#2055, #2378, #2905, #1857, #3692) all use "queued"; some other surfaces use "pending." Users can't tell whether they're filing duplicate reports about the same thing or two genuinely different bugs.

Comece comparando os usos de "queued" e "pending" na CLI e, em seguida, examine o texto de /help e os rótulos do indicador de fila na tela mencionados na issue. Determine se os termos descrevem ciclos de vida, comportamento de descarregamento ou estados de cancelamento diferentes; documente a distinção em /help e no tooltip ou padronize a terminologia caso sejam equivalentes.

Escrita pelo modelo de indexação a partir do texto da issue.