[Java] reduce heap footprint of ValueVectors

In some scenarios, we hold lots of value vectors in memory eg. during join, aggregation. The heap analysis shows that the costs are as follows for a simple IntVector (used VisualVM on mac) :

IntVector : 80 bytes

vector.types.pojo.FieldType : 41 bytes

vector.types.pojo.Field : 40 bytes

IntReaderImpl : 28 bytes

I'll use this Jira to track ways to reduce the heap usage.

**Reporter**: [Pindikura Ravindra](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-5482) / @pravindra
#### Related issues:
- [[Java] remove FieldReader from ValueVector](https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/issues/411) (is a parent of)
- [[Java] add ValueVector constructors that take a Field object](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/21932) (is a parent of)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-5482](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-5482). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

先閱讀 Java ValueVector 實作以及相關的「remove FieldReader from ValueVector」issue (#411)，然後使用 VisualVM 重現列出的 IntVector 堆積設定檔。完成標準是：測得報告中的 ValueVector 記憶體成本有所降低，並記錄受影響的情境和取捨。

由索引模型根據 Issue 內容生成。