[Java] Implement vector diff functionality

In C++ side, we already have array diff functionality for vector equals and testing to make it easy to see differences between Arrays and reduce debugging time.  And it’s better to do something similar in Java side for better testing facilities.

**Reporter**: [Ji Liu](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-8019) / @tianchen92

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-8019](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-8019). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

首先定位現有的 C++ 陣列差異功能，以及用於比較向量的 Java 測試工具。透過比對向量相等性所呈現的差異來定義 Java 等效實作，然後新增或更新測試，以展示產生的診斷資訊。

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