[Java] Implement vector diff functionality

In C++ side, we already have array diff functionality for vector equals and testing to make it easy to see differences between Arrays and reduce debugging time.  And it’s better to do something similar in Java side for better testing facilities.

**Reporter**: [Ji Liu](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-8019) / @tianchen92

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-8019](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-8019). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

Comece localizando a funcionalidade existente de diff de arrays em C++ e os utilitários de teste em Java que comparam vetores. Defina o equivalente em Java correspondendo às diferenças expostas para a igualdade de vetores e, em seguida, adicione ou atualize testes que demonstrem os diagnósticos resultantes.

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