[Java] ArrowMessage failed to parse compressed grpc stream

InvalidProtocolBufferException will be thrown in ArrowMessage.frame if we use gzip compress in Grpc.

The reason is stream.available will still be 1 after we read compressed data. There should be another attempt read to change InflaterInputStream.reachEOF to be true, and make stream.available to be 0.

Thus we need check stream.available after read tag from stream.

**Reporter**: [Jackey Lee](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-11177) / @jackylee-ch
#### PRs and other links:
- [GitHub Pull Request apache/arrow#9147](https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/9147)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-11177](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-11177). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

从 ArrowMessage.frame 开始，检查压缩 gRPC 流的 read-tag 处理，重点关注 stream.available 和 InvalidProtocolBufferException。查看链接的 PR #9147，并验证 gzip 压缩的输入能够成功解析，同时不会将流过早地视为 available。

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