[Java] org.apache.arrow:arrow-dataset also need to pack Windows/Linux binary

org.apache.arrow:arrow-dataset:4.0.0 only packed macOS JNI binary. I suggest to also pack Windows & Linux JNI binary to make it an out-of-the-box Maven dependency.

**Reporter**: [Shuai Zhang](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-12828) / @hcoona

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-12828](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-12828). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

首先检查 org.apache.arrow:arrow-dataset:4.0.0 的打包配置，以及其 JNI 二进制文件如何为 Maven 组装。确认现有 macOS 二进制文件的包含方式，然后验证 Windows 和 Linux 二进制文件已完成打包，使该依赖项能够在三个平台上开箱即用。

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