Arrow 13.0.0: org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightRuntimeException: CANCELLED: Failed to stream message

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

Hello All,

I would like to ask your help in the following issue I am facing with.

I have a Java and a Python application in different pods running on Kubernetes. A running Arrow Flight server is on the Python side.

Arrow version: 13.0.0 (everything worked fine with version 12.0.1)

**flightClient.handshake();** throws this error and the method is in an infinite loop:

```BASH
org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightRuntimeException: CANCELLED: Failed to stream message
at org.apache.arrow.flight.CallStatus.toRuntimeException(CallStatus.java:131)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.grpc.StatusUtils.fromGrpcRuntimeException(StatusUtils.java:164)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.grpc.StatusUtils.fromThrowable(StatusUtils.java:185)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.auth2.ClientHandshakeWrapper.doClientHandshake(ClientHandshakeWrapper.java:59)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightClient.handshake(FlightClient.java:212)
at ...
Caused by: io.grpc.StatusRuntimeException: INTERNAL: Failed to frame message
at io.grpc.Status.asRuntimeException(Status.java:530)
at io.grpc.internal.MessageFramer.writePayload(MessageFramer.java:154)
at io.grpc.internal.AbstractStream.writeMessage(AbstractStream.java:66)
at io.grpc.internal.ForwardingClientStream.writeMessage(ForwardingClientStream.java:37)
at io.grpc.internal.DelayedStream.writeMessage(DelayedStream.java:278)
at io.grpc.internal.RetriableStream$1SendMessageEntry.runWith(RetriableStream.java:567)
at io.grpc.internal.RetriableStream.delayOrExecute(RetriableStream.java:544)
at io.grpc.internal.RetriableStream.sendMessage(RetriableStream.java:575)
at io.grpc.internal.ClientCallImpl.sendMessageInternal(ClientCallImpl.java:525)
at io.grpc.internal.ClientCallImpl.sendMessage(ClientCallImpl.java:513)
at io.grpc.ForwardingClientCall.sendMessage(ForwardingClientCall.java:37)
at io.grpc.stub.ClientCalls$CallToStreamObserverAdapter.onNext(ClientCalls.java:378)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.auth2.ClientHandshakeWrapper.doClientHandshake(ClientHandshakeWrapper.java:48)
... 21 more
Caused by: java.lang.UnsupportedOperationException: This is supposed to be overridden by subclasses.
at com.google.protobuf.GeneratedMessageV3.getUnknownFields(GeneratedMessageV3.java:302)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.impl.Flight$HandshakeRequest.getSerializedSize(Flight.java:328)
at io.grpc.protobuf.lite.ProtoInputStream.available(ProtoInputStream.java:108)
at io.grpc.internal.MessageFramer.getKnownLength(MessageFramer.java:208)
at io.grpc.internal.MessageFramer.writePayload(MessageFramer.java:138)
... 32 more
```

### Component(s)

Java

Bắt đầu từ org.apache.arrow.flight.auth2.ClientHandshakeWrapper.doClientHandshake và phần serialization được tạo của Flight.HandshakeRequest hiển thị trong stack trace. So sánh hành vi và các dependency của Java client giữa Arrow 12.0.1 và 13.0.0, tái hiện handshake giữa các ứng dụng Java và Python trong Kubernetes. Hoàn tất khi flightClient.handshake() hoàn thành mà không có framing error hoặc infinite retry loop.

Do mô hình lập chỉ mục viết ra từ nội dung của issue.