Arrow 13.0.0: org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightRuntimeException: CANCELLED: Failed to stream message

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

Hello All,

I would like to ask your help in the following issue I am facing with.

I have a Java and a Python application in different pods running on Kubernetes. A running Arrow Flight server is on the Python side.

Arrow version: 13.0.0 (everything worked fine with version 12.0.1)

**flightClient.handshake();** throws this error and the method is in an infinite loop:

```BASH
org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightRuntimeException: CANCELLED: Failed to stream message
at org.apache.arrow.flight.CallStatus.toRuntimeException(CallStatus.java:131)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.grpc.StatusUtils.fromGrpcRuntimeException(StatusUtils.java:164)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.grpc.StatusUtils.fromThrowable(StatusUtils.java:185)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.auth2.ClientHandshakeWrapper.doClientHandshake(ClientHandshakeWrapper.java:59)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightClient.handshake(FlightClient.java:212)
at ...
Caused by: io.grpc.StatusRuntimeException: INTERNAL: Failed to frame message
at io.grpc.Status.asRuntimeException(Status.java:530)
at io.grpc.internal.MessageFramer.writePayload(MessageFramer.java:154)
at io.grpc.internal.AbstractStream.writeMessage(AbstractStream.java:66)
at io.grpc.internal.ForwardingClientStream.writeMessage(ForwardingClientStream.java:37)
at io.grpc.internal.DelayedStream.writeMessage(DelayedStream.java:278)
at io.grpc.internal.RetriableStream$1SendMessageEntry.runWith(RetriableStream.java:567)
at io.grpc.internal.RetriableStream.delayOrExecute(RetriableStream.java:544)
at io.grpc.internal.RetriableStream.sendMessage(RetriableStream.java:575)
at io.grpc.internal.ClientCallImpl.sendMessageInternal(ClientCallImpl.java:525)
at io.grpc.internal.ClientCallImpl.sendMessage(ClientCallImpl.java:513)
at io.grpc.ForwardingClientCall.sendMessage(ForwardingClientCall.java:37)
at io.grpc.stub.ClientCalls$CallToStreamObserverAdapter.onNext(ClientCalls.java:378)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.auth2.ClientHandshakeWrapper.doClientHandshake(ClientHandshakeWrapper.java:48)
... 21 more
Caused by: java.lang.UnsupportedOperationException: This is supposed to be overridden by subclasses.
at com.google.protobuf.GeneratedMessageV3.getUnknownFields(GeneratedMessageV3.java:302)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.impl.Flight$HandshakeRequest.getSerializedSize(Flight.java:328)
at io.grpc.protobuf.lite.ProtoInputStream.available(ProtoInputStream.java:108)
at io.grpc.internal.MessageFramer.getKnownLength(MessageFramer.java:208)
at io.grpc.internal.MessageFramer.writePayload(MessageFramer.java:138)
... 32 more
```

### Component(s)

Java

Commencez par org.apache.arrow.flight.auth2.ClientHandshakeWrapper.doClientHandshake et par la sérialisation générée de Flight.HandshakeRequest affichée dans la stack trace. Comparez le comportement et les dépendances du client Java entre Arrow 12.0.1 et 13.0.0, en reproduisant le handshake entre les applications Java et Python dans Kubernetes. C’est terminé lorsque flightClient.handshake() se termine sans l’erreur de framing ni la boucle infinie de tentatives.

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