feat(table): add ability to customize the CSS class generation for columns

### Feature Description

Currently, if we have column say, `bankAccount`, the generated class name would be `cdk-column-bankAccount`/`mat-column-bankAccount`, but then when I use this kind of selector in my scss, I get some lint warnings, as we're supposed to use kebab-case, not camelCase... so we have to keep silencing the warnings everytime we have to do this. What we want to propose is to have an option to customize this css class generation (if possibly, globally).

### Use Case

We want to control my table styles without relying on camelCased selectors.

So, instead of this:

https://github.com/angular/components/blob/59002e1649123922df3532f4be78c485a73c5bc1/src/cdk/table/cell.ts#L144

We'd love to have an option to implement my own css class generator.

Start by reading the class-generation code linked in `src/cdk/table/cell.ts` and the issue’s use case. The requested outcome is an option, possibly global, to customize generated column CSS classes; the issue does not specify its API or tests.

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