Include _run_once duration in asyncio debug

Feature or enhancement

In asyncio debug mode, log the duration of the asyncio iteration if it exceeds the slow_callback_duration (or a separate duration), as is done now for individual coroutine durations.

Pitch

This will capture when one eventloop iteration is slow, not just because one coroutine is blocking for a while, but because there might be several smaller tasks to process (e.g. 10 10ms operations in one tick blocks incoming operations just as much as one 100ms task, but nothing is logged, currently). It might be less actionable info if it doesn’t log the tasks, but it’s proved useful to us in the past as a more general diagnostic with other event loops (pre-asyncio tornado.IOLoop.set_blocking_log_threshold). This may be an indicator that a web worker is overloaded and more replicas are needed, for example, even if each individual task is handled quickly.

I see three possible versions of this:

1. like slow coroutines, log only a single time for _run_once if it exceeds a threshold. This doesn't contain actionable info on its own other than 'things are slow'
2. add to 1. some summary information about the tasks (e.g. log total number and top N coroutines and durations if the sum of durations exceeds some threshold)
3. replicate tornado's pre-asyncio set_blocking_log_threshold, which logs the stack when the time is crossed via signal.setitimer. The nice thing about this is it can diagnose hangs, not just slowness, unlike after-complete timer logs. Only available where setitimer is also available, of course.

Previous discussion

Brought up originally on async-sig.

从 Lib/asyncio/base_events.py 中 issue 所引用的现有慢回调持续时间日志记录附近开始，然后检查 _run_once 的处理方式。该 issue 提出了三种可能的设计，因此首先明确应实现哪种行为，以及预期的阈值和诊断输出。完成的标准是：就 debug-mode 下的事件循环持续时间诊断达成一致，并具备相应的覆盖率。