Table - support for small toggle using ActionsColumn

Compact tables should use compact actions to achieve proper alignment. Regular actions will result in a small misalignment.

The default menu toggle in ActionsColumn component doesn't appear to have support for changing its size, so it causes a misalignment when used in compact tables. It would be great to be able pass a prop to this component to control the default toggle size.

@thatblindgeye I opened this issue before I saw your comment in https://github.com/patternfly/patternfly/issues/7267#issuecomment-2552073848

not sure if we expose a way to adjust the size of a kebab toggle in a table -- EDIT: technically we do as you can pass a custom toggle in

Seems like it might be useful to support a small toggle here, but feel free to close this if you think passing a custom toggle resolves this issue. https://github.com/patternfly/patternfly-react/blob/4d61988b459a747a05cd27a56ceecfea65b87612/packages/react-table/src/components/Table/ActionsColumn.tsx#L101-L109

Jira Issue: PF-4559

Start in packages/react-table/src/components/Table/ActionsColumn.tsx, especially the default toggle area linked in the issue. Compare the existing custom-toggle path with the requested size control, then verify that compact tables can use a small toggle without affecting regular tables. Done means the default toggle supports the requested size while preserving current behavior.