Use redirect.github.com links when creating Fixes, Refs, PR-URL and Backport-PR-URL

Sometimes I get bothered by the cross references automatically created by GitHub cluttering the referenced PR/issue, especially when they get copied into various forks and each fork would generate a new cross reference. Then the thread of the referenced PRs/issues would eventually get drowned by these cross references over time.

I learned from Bluesky that the documented way to prevent this from happening is to use redirect.github.com instead. So it seems helpful to use that in the metadata generated for commit messages. We can still create direct cross references when we reference them in a comment/PR description, which don't usually get copied all over the place in a way out of our control.

cc @nodejs/tsc @nodejs/release @nodejs/build for visibility since it'll impact the formatting of commit messages, not sure if that'll break anything..

没有指定文件或测试。首先在 repository 中搜索元数据字段 Fixes、Refs、PR-URL 和 Backport-PR-URL，然后阅读用于格式化 commit 消息的入口点。完成的标准是生成的链接使用 redirect.github.com，同时手动编写的 comment 和 pull request 引用保持不变。