Better method for managing clang-format binaries

We are able to call `clang-format` by shelling out to it on the system path, and we are able to cache its results by enforcing a version check on the binary. However, if it isn't on the path, or the version is wrong, we just show a helpful error message and let the user figure it out from there:

https://github.com/diffplug/spotless/blob/608e128381c89260f8a38fba985415c1f962ec7b/lib/src/main/java/com/diffplug/spotless/cpp/ClangFormatStep.java#L70-L83

It would be nice if we could handle this better, or at least have better instructions.

Start with lib/src/main/java/com/diffplug/spotless/cpp/ClangFormatStep.java at the linked lines, and read the existing system-path lookup, version check, and error handling. Review the issue discussion for an agreed direction; done should mean a clearer way to handle missing or mismatched clang-format binaries, or instructions that let users resolve those cases.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.