Enable tls hostname verification in c++ client it is failing but works with java client

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- [X] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/pulsar/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Version

2.8.2

### Minimal reproduce step

Client CN: [myd-hvmxxxx.swinfra.net](http://myd-hvmxxxx.swinfra.net/)
Url of proxy :pulsar+ssl://myd-hvmxxxx.swinfra.net:31051
Below is the error we are seeing in c++ client:
UDX-2.9.0-5:ERROR:ClientConnection(456)[10.199.82.99:43104 -> 10.199.81.77:31051] Handshake failed: certificate verify failedSun Dec 25 01:07:54 2022
UDX-2.9.0-5:ERROR:ClientImpl(43
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2)Error getting topic partitions metadata: ConnectError

attaching the files for reproducing .

### What did you expect to see?

connection from cpp client to work when tls hostname is enabled .

### What did you see instead?

connection errors .

### Anything else?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [X] I'm willing to submit a PR!

首先，使用代理 URL 和附带的复现文件，复现针对版本 2.8.2 描述的 TLS 主机名验证失败问题。将 C++ 客户端的行为与正常工作的 Java 客户端进行比较，并验证启用主机名验证后连接能够成功。

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