Enable tls hostname verification in c++ client it is failing but works with java client

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### Version

2.8.2

### Minimal reproduce step

Client CN: [myd-hvmxxxx.swinfra.net](http://myd-hvmxxxx.swinfra.net/)
Url of proxy :pulsar+ssl://myd-hvmxxxx.swinfra.net:31051
Below is the error we are seeing in c++ client:
UDX-2.9.0-5:ERROR:ClientConnection(456)[10.199.82.99:43104 -> 10.199.81.77:31051] Handshake failed: certificate verify failedSun Dec 25 01:07:54 2022
UDX-2.9.0-5:ERROR:ClientImpl(43
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2)Error getting topic partitions metadata: ConnectError

attaching the files for reproducing .

### What did you expect to see?

connection from cpp client to work when tls hostname is enabled .

### What did you see instead?

connection errors .

### Anything else?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [X] I'm willing to submit a PR!

Start by reproducing the TLS hostname-verification failure described for version 2.8.2, using the proxy URL and attached reproduction files. Compare the C++ client's behavior with the working Java client and verify the connection succeeds when hostname verification is enabled.

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