Support ExistenceJoin type in HashJoin

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```
SELECT t1_id, t1_name from t1 WHERE
t1_id IN (SELECT t2_id FROM t2 where t2_name = 'b') OR
t1_id IN (SELECT t3_id FROM t3 where t3_name = 'c')
````

````
SELECT t1_id, t1_name from t1 WHERE
t1_id IN (SELECT t2_id FROM t2 where t2_name = 'b') OR
t1_name IN (SELECT t2_name FROM t2 where t2_name = 'b')
````

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Start by locating the HashJoin implementation and any existing ExistenceJoin handling in DataFusion. Use the two SQL examples as behavioral cases, covering IN subqueries combined with OR and differing key columns; done means these queries are supported and covered by appropriate tests.

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