Allow user to provide custom filter in ListingTableUrl

**Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.**
Many object_stores are not as clean as expected. Eg: many have "hidden" files such as _SUCCESS or _temp/blahblah.
When using ListingTableUrl these files are not filtered and cause issues when inferring schema/options.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
ListingTableUrl has an optional glob but it would be more helpful if this was somewhat more generic, eg an optional Fn(&ObjectMeta) -> bool

**Describe alternatives you've considered**
We could implement the filtering at other layers in the application but they all seem to come with drawbacks/feeling awkward (eg: such filtering does not really belong in a wrapper around an object_store).

まず ListingTableUrl と既存のオプションの glob フィルタリングを見つけ、次にスキーマとオプションの推論中にオブジェクトメタデータがどのように使用されているかを調べます。オプションのメタデータ述語によって、推論前に隠しファイルなどのエントリを除外でき、フィルタリングの動作をカバーするテストがある状態を完了とします。

索引モデルが issue の本文から書いたものです。