Allow setting `ClientOptions` for `datafusion.object_store` contexts

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Currently, there doesn't seem to be a way to set the `ClientOptions` used by the object store contexts from Python. This limits configurability and can lead to issues like connection/request timeouts and incorrectly configured CA hampering usage in some setups - especially corporate or multi-cloud setups.

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Let's expose passing `ClientOption` in for all `datafusion.object_store` contexts (e.g. `PyAmazonS3Context`, `PyGoogleCloudContext`, etc).