[CI] Mac jar build uses a different LLVM version than Linux

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

The Mac build uses an older LLVM version (15) than Linux (18). This seems to be related to the CI code and the fact that the mac github runners have llvm installed via brew
https://github.com/actions/runner-images/blob/releases/macos-14-arm64/20250915/images/macos/macos-14-arm64-Readme.md
Even newer runners only have LLVM 17.

The discrepancy could lead to hard to find bugs or performance issues.

Is it possible to use vcpkg for the mac builds? That way we could be assured that they are always consistent across platforms.

A few related changes I found:
Unpin the llvm version in arrow/cpp/Brewfile. I think this might mean that theoretically the latest llvm could be installed but since the runner image already has an older one installed, that is used instead.
https://github.com/apache/arrow/commit/c1f995226c46c2bba9c5fbf988cf9b247f87adad

A related change talking about llvm 14. https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/14310

Lokalisieren Sie die CI-Definitionen für den macOS- und Linux-jar-build und vergleichen Sie, wie LLVM ausgewählt wird. Untersuchen Sie anschließend arrow/cpp/Brewfile und die Details des verlinkten Runner-Images. Als erledigt gilt die Aufgabe, wenn die Builds eine konsistente LLVM-Version verwenden oder ein ausdrücklich dokumentierter und begründeter Versionsunterschied zwischen den Plattformen vorliegt.

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