VectorAppender fails with OversizedAllocationException when appending to empty UnionVector

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

**Description:**
When appending a `UnionVector` to an empty target `UnionVector`, [this](https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/blob/main/vector/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/vector/util/VectorAppender.java#L556) while loop runs infinitely until the exception occurs:
```
org.apache.arrow.vector.util.OversizedAllocationException: Unable to expand the buffer
```
It seems to be a issue with the `UnionVector.getValueCapacity()` method. Logging the capacity before and after calling `reAlloc()` shows that it's always `0`.
Debugging further, it seems like the value capacity of the `internalStruct` in the `UnionVector` always returns `0` because it has no children so [size](https://github.com/apache/arrow-java/blob/main/vector/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/vector/complex/NonNullableStructVector.java#L373) is `0`.
```
@Override
public int getValueCapacity() {
return Math.min(getTypeBufferValueCapacity(), internalStruct.getValueCapacity());
}
```

**Steps to reproduce**
```
@Test
public void testAppendEmptyTargetUnionVector() {
final int length = 5;

try (final UnionVector target = UnionVector.empty("target", allocator);
final UnionVector delta = UnionVector.empty("delta", allocator)) {

// populate the delta vector
delta.setType(0, Types.MinorType.FLOAT4);
delta.setType(1, Types.MinorType.FLOAT4);
delta.setType(2, Types.MinorType.FLOAT4);
delta.setType(3, Types.MinorType.FLOAT4);
delta.setType(4, Types.MinorType.FLOAT4);

Float4Vector deltaFloatVector = delta.getFloat4Vector();
deltaFloatVector.allocateNew();
ValueVectorDataPopulator.setVector(deltaFloatVector, 1f, 2f, 3f, 4f, 5f);
assertEquals(length, deltaFloatVector.getValueCount());
delta.setValueCount(length);

VectorAppender appender = new VectorAppender(target);
delta.accept(appender, null);

assertEquals(length, target.getValueCount());

for (int i = 0; i < length; i++) {
Object floatObj = target.getObject(i);
assertTrue(floatObj instanceof Float);
assertEquals(i+1, ((Float) floatObj).intValue());
}
}
}
```
This issue does not occur if any value is set in the target vector before appending.

VectorAppender.java の556行目付近のループから始め、NonNullableStructVector.java の373行目付近も含めて UnionVector.getValueCapacity() を調査します。提供されている testAppendEmptyTargetUnionVector の再現を実行し、reAlloc() の前後で容量を比較します。空の UnionVector への追加が OversizedAllocationException なしで完了し、5つすべての float 値が保持されれば完了です。

索引モデルが issue の本文から書いたものです。