[Java] allocate new buffer code doesn't release extra allocated buffer properly

[Class BaseValueVector](https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/master/java/vector/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/vector/BaseValueVector.java) 's method allocFixedDataAndValidityBufs on line#162 allocates a buffer in power of 2 size. After that, it has a code to release extra buffer. For that, it calculates the extra buffer from allocated size "bufferSize" but in my opinion, it should take original "valueCount" to find the extra buffer size. 

Here, I see a problem in line#162, where its taking "bufferSize" to find the extra allocated bytes. It should be "valueCount\*typeWidth + valueCount/8".

Here is an example for that. Let's take 1000 ints. Then,
valueCount = 1000 ints
typeWidth = 4 bytes
validitiyBufferSize = 125 bytes
valueBufferSize = 4000 bytes
combinedSize(valueBufferSize + validityBufferSize) = 4128 bytes (multiple of 8)
combinedSizeWith2ThePowerSize = 8192 bytes, this will be "bufferSize" at line#152.

With the above calculation, this code should release (combinedSizeWith2ThePowerSize - combinedSize) = 4064 bytes. But, this is not happening.

**Reporter**: [Hitesh Khamesra](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-5057)
#### PRs and other links:
- [GitHub Pull Request apache/arrow#4079](https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/4079)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-5057](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-5057). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

java/vector/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/vector/BaseValueVector.java の allocFixedDataAndValidityBufs から始め、特に 162 行目付近の割り当てと追加バッファーの解放を確認してください。1,000 個の int の例についてバッファーサイズの計算を追い、完了した変更によって想定される追加の割り当てが解放されることを確認してください。この issue には PR apache/arrow#4079 がすでにリンクされていることにも注意してください。

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