[Java] Ensure Flight with native Netty transport is actually being tested

There's only one test that exercises the domain socket path and it appears it's getting skipped on CI
```

[INFO] Running org.apache.arrow.flight.TestServerOptions
Warning:  Tests run: 5, Failures: 0, Errors: 0, Skipped: 1, Time elapsed: 0.024 s - in org.apache.arrow.flight.TestServerOptions
```
We should make sure this test works and figure out whatever Maven magic we need to get the right dependencies on the right platforms

**Reporter**: [David Li](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17024) / @lidavidm

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-17024](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17024). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

Comienza ejecutando org.apache.arrow.flight.TestServerOptions y comprobando por qué se omite la prueba de sockets de dominio en CI. Inspecciona la configuración de Maven y las dependencias específicas de la plataforma para el transporte nativo de Netty. Se considera terminado cuando la prueba se ejecuta correctamente, en lugar de omitirse, en las plataformas de CI aplicables.

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