[Java] Move ArrowBufPointer out of the java the memory package

The memory package is focused on memory access and management. ArrowBufPointer should be moved to algorithm package as it isn't core to the Arrow memory management primitives. I would further suggest that is an anti-pattern.

**Reporter**: [Jacques Nadeau](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-7533) / @jacques-n
#### PRs and other links:
- [GitHub Pull Request apache/arrow#6208](https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/6208)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-7533](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-7533). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

先查看 PR #6208，然后在 Java 的内存和算法包中定位 ArrowBufPointer 及其引用。确认移动后引用和包结构仍保持一致，并验证项目仍能成功构建。

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