[Java] Should ListVector.reset() reset the position(index)?

```java
RootAllocator rootAllocator = new RootAllocator();
ListVector identity = ListVector.empty("identity", rootAllocator);
VectorSchemaRoot root = new VectorSchemaRoot(List.of(identity));
root.allocateNew();

UnionListWriter writer = identity.getWriter();

byte[] bytes1 = "hello1".getBytes(StandardCharsets.UTF_8);
ArrowBuf buffer = rootAllocator.buffer(bytes1.length);
buffer.setBytes(0,bytes1);
writer.startList();
writer.varChar().writeVarChar(0,bytes1.length,buffer);
writer.endList();
root.setRowCount(1);
System.out.println(root.contentToTSVString());

root.getFieldVectors().forEach(ValueVector::reset); //reset fieldVector

byte[] bytes2 = "hello2".getBytes(StandardCharsets.UTF_8);
buffer.setBytes(0,bytes2);
writer.startList();
writer.varChar().writeVarChar(0,bytes2.length,buffer);
writer.endList();

root.setRowCount(1);
System.out.println(root.contentToTSVString());
```

the result is
```
identity
["hello1"]

identity
null
```

The above results are confusing。

The correct way is using the `writer.setPosition(index)`,

I don't know if it's a bug or other something.

### Component(s)

Java

Start by running the Java reproduction using ListVector, ValueVector.reset(), and UnionListWriter.setPosition(index) to observe the position behavior. Read the reset and writer-position implementations involved, then establish the expected result after resetting and add coverage for the demonstrated sequence so the behavior is unambiguous.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.