[Java] Gandiva fails to build on M1 Mac

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

When building the Java JNI modules on M1
```
mvn \
-Darrow.cpp.build.dir=/java-dist/lib/ \
-Darrow.c.jni.dist.dir=/java-dist/lib/ \
-Parrow-jni clean install
```

.. we'll fail on the Gandiva module ..
```
...
[INFO] Arrow Gandiva ...................................... FAILURE [ 3.053 s]
[INFO] Arrow Java C Data Interface ........................ SKIPPED
[INFO] Arrow Java Dataset ................................. SKIPPED
[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
[INFO] BUILD FAILURE
[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
[INFO] Total time: 04:34 min
[INFO] Finished at: 2023-07-27T17:17:21-04:00
[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
[ERROR] Failed to execute goal org.xolstice.maven.plugins:protobuf-maven-plugin:0.6.1:compile (default) on project arrow-gandiva: Unable to resolve artifact: Missing:
[ERROR] ----------
[ERROR] 1) com.google.protobuf:protoc:exe:osx-aarch_64:3.20.3
[ERROR]
[ERROR] Try downloading the file manually from the project website.
[ERROR]
[ERROR] Then, install it using the command:
[ERROR] mvn install:install-file -DgroupId=com.google.protobuf -DartifactId=protoc -Dversion=3.20.3 -Dclassifier=osx-aarch_64 -Dpackaging=exe -Dfile=/path/to/file
[ERROR]
[ERROR] Alternatively, if you host your own repository you can deploy the file there:
[ERROR] mvn deploy:deploy-file -DgroupId=com.google.protobuf -DartifactId=protoc -Dversion=3.20.3 -Dclassifier=osx-aarch_64 -Dpackaging=exe -Dfile=/path/to/file -Durl=[url] -DrepositoryId=[id]
[ERROR]
[ERROR] Path to dependency:
[ERROR] 1) org.apache.arrow.gandiva:arrow-gandiva:jar:13.0.0-SNAPSHOT
[ERROR] 2) com.google.protobuf:protoc:exe:osx-aarch_64:3.20.3
[ERROR]
[ERROR] ----------
[ERROR] 1 required artifact is missing.
[ERROR]
[ERROR] for artifact:
[ERROR] org.apache.arrow.gandiva:arrow-gandiva:jar:13.0.0-SNAPSHOT
[ERROR]
[ERROR] from the specified remote repositories:
[ERROR] apache.snapshots (https://repository.apache.org/snapshots, releases=false, snapshots=true),
[ERROR] central (https://repo.maven.apache.org/maven2, releases=true, snapshots=false)
```

Why? Gandiva uses protoc version `v3.20.3`, which doesn't have an osx-aarch64 build on maven[1]. If you check +/-1 from this version, there _is_ an osx-aarch64 build.

We can either:
1) Request the osx-aarch64 build be uploaded (assuming it wasn't broken or removed deliberately).
2) Upgrade protobuf. There are 263 new commits if we upgrade to the next incremental release[2].

I built Gandiva with protobuf `v3.21.0` and tests passed, but I haven't verified any farther than that.

[1] https://repo.maven.apache.org/maven2/com/google/protobuf/protoc/3.20.3/
[2] https://github.com/protocolbuffers/protobuf/compare/v3.20.3...v3.21.0

### Component(s)

Java

Bắt đầu với lệnh Maven và mô-đun Java của Arrow Gandiva được mô tả trong issue, sau đó kiểm tra cách protoc 3.20.3 được cấu hình cho bản build Java JNI. So sánh các phiên bản protobuf hiện có và xác minh thay đổi đã chọn bằng cách build Gandiva trên máy Mac M1 và chạy các bài kiểm thử của nó.

Do mô hình lập chỉ mục viết ra từ nội dung của issue.