[Java] java.lang.NullPointerException: null at org.apache.arrow.driver.jdbc. Failed in getDialectProperties

### Describe the enhancement requested

There is an error with jdbc arrow driver in Tableau. Hope somebody find solution to fix it. or maybe addd necessary dialect to arrow

```
2023-10-12 23:06:37.332 +0300 (,,,,3,23) grpc-default-executor-3 : ERROR com.tableau.connect.util.GrpcServiceHelper - Failed in getDialectProperties.
java.lang.NullPointerException: null
at org.apache.arrow.driver.jdbc.ArrowDatabaseMetadata.getSqlInfoEnumOptionAndCacheIfCacheIsEmpty(ArrowDatabaseMetadata.java:758) ~[?:?]
at org.apache.arrow.driver.jdbc.ArrowDatabaseMetadata.supportsANSI92EntryLevelSQL(ArrowDatabaseMetadata.java:343) ~[?:?]
at com.tableausoftware.jdbc.JDBCProtocolImpl.getSQL92Level(JDBCProtocolImpl.java:1038) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at com.tableausoftware.jdbc.JDBCProtocolImpl.getDialectPropertiesImpl(JDBCProtocolImpl.java:1168) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at com.tableausoftware.jdbc.JDBCProtocolImpl.getDialectProperties(JDBCProtocolImpl.java:1189) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at com.tableau.connect.service.ProtocolService.getDialectProperties(ProtocolService.java:260) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService.lambda$getDialectProperties$15(GrpcProtocolService.java:220) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService.wrap(GrpcProtocolService.java:280) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService.getDialectProperties(GrpcProtocolService.java:219) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at com.tableau.connect.generated.ProtocolServiceGrpc$MethodHandlers.invoke(ProtocolServiceGrpc.java:1536) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.stub.ServerCalls$UnaryServerCallHandler$UnaryServerCallListener.onHalfClose(ServerCalls.java:182) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.PartialForwardingServerCallListener.onHalfClose(PartialForwardingServerCallListener.java:35) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.ForwardingServerCallListener.onHalfClose(ForwardingServerCallListener.java:23) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.ForwardingServerCallListener$SimpleForwardingServerCallListener.onHalfClose(ForwardingServerCallListener.java:40) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.Contexts$ContextualizedServerCallListener.onHalfClose(Contexts.java:86) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.internal.ServerCallImpl$ServerStreamListenerImpl.halfClosed(ServerCallImpl.java:354) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.internal.ServerImpl$JumpToApplicationThreadServerStreamListener$1HalfClosed.runInContext(ServerImpl.java:866) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.internal.ContextRunnable.run(ContextRunnable.java:37) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at io.grpc.internal.SerializingExecutor.run(SerializingExecutor.java:133) ~[jdbcserver.jar:20232.0.5]
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(Unknown Source) ~[?:?]
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(Unknown Source) ~[?:?]
at java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source) ~[?:?]
2023-10-12 23:06:37.332 +0300 (,,,,3,23) grpc-default-executor-3 : INFO com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService - End local request 23 /getDialectProperties.
2023-10-12 23:06:37.334 +0300 (,,,,3,24) grpc-default-executor-3 : INFO com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService - Start local request 24 /isConnected.
2023-10-12 23:06:37.334 +0300 (,,,,3,24) grpc-default-executor-3 : INFO com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService - End local request 24 /isConnected.
2023-10-12 23:06:37.335 +0300 (,,,,3,25) grpc-default-executor-3 : INFO com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService - Start local request 25 /closeProtocol.
2023-10-12 23:06:37.335 +0300 (,,,,3,25) grpc-default-executor-3 : INFO com.tableausoftware.jdbc.JDBCProtocolImpl - Closing connection 3.
2023-10-12 23:06:37.337 +0300 (,,,,3,25) grpc-default-executor-3 : INFO com.tableau.connect.grpc.GrpcProtocolService - End local request 25 /closeProtocol.

```

There are also some warning messeges at `cfjd.io.netty.util.internal.ReflectionUtil `

```
WARNING: sun.reflect.Reflection.getCallerClass is not supported. This will impact performance.
2023-10-12T21:59:50.037127 Protocol Server starting.
WARNING: An illegal reflective access operation has occurred
WARNING: Illegal reflective access by cfjd.io.netty.util.internal.ReflectionUtil (file:/Users/yuriygavrilov/Library/Tableau/Drivers/flight-sql-jdbc-driver-13.0.0.jar) to constructor java.nio.DirectByteBuffer(long,int)
WARNING: Please consider reporting this to the maintainers of cfjd.io.netty.util.internal.ReflectionUtil
WARNING: Use --illegal-access=warn to enable warnings of further illegal reflective access operations
WARNING: All illegal access operations will be denied in a future release

```

### Component(s)

Java

To reproduce this error try to start arrow server with:

```
docker run --name flight-sql \
--detach \
--rm \
--tty \
--init \
--publish 31337:31337 \
--env FLIGHT_PASSWORD="flight_password" \
--pull missing \
--mount type=bind,source=$(pwd),target=/opt/flight_sql/data \
--env DATABASE_FILE_NAME="tpch_sf1.duckdb" \
voltrondata/flight-sql:latest
```

Add jdbc driver to tableau driver from `https://repo.maven.apache.org/maven2/org/apache/arrow/arrow-jdbc/13.0.0/` to local folder like `/Users/{user}/Library/Tableau/Drivers/flight-sql-jdbc-driver-13.0.0.jar`

Try to connect with this URL `jdbc:arrow-flight-sql://localhost:31337?useEncryption=true&user=flight_username&password=flight_password&disableCertificateVerification=true
`

This works fine in dbeaver ...

ArrowDatabaseMetadata.java の 758 行目から始め、提供されている Flight SQL Docker コマンド、Arrow JDBC 13.0.0 ドライバー、Tableau 接続 URL を使って失敗を再現します。Tableau の失敗を、成功したと報告されている DBeaver 接続と比較し、SQL 方言のメタデータパスを調査します。Tableau の getDialectProperties リクエストで NullPointerException が発生しなくなれば完了です。

索引モデルが issue の本文から書いたものです。