[CI][Java] *-sources.jar include *.{so,dylib,dll}

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

https://github.com/ursacomputing/crossbow/releases/tag/nightly-packaging-2024-02-08-0-github-java-jars

For example, `arrow-dataset-16.0.0-SNAPSHOT-sources.jar` includes the following:

```console
$ find arrow-dataset-16.0.0-SNAPSHOT-sources | grep -E '\.(so|dylib|dll)'
arrow-dataset-16.0.0-SNAPSHOT-sources/arrow_dataset_jni/aarch_64/libarrow_dataset_jni.dylib
arrow-dataset-16.0.0-SNAPSHOT-sources/arrow_dataset_jni/aarch_64/libarrow_dataset_jni.so
arrow-dataset-16.0.0-SNAPSHOT-sources/arrow_dataset_jni/x86_64/libarrow_dataset_jni.dylib
arrow-dataset-16.0.0-SNAPSHOT-sources/arrow_dataset_jni/x86_64/arrow_dataset_jni.dll
arrow-dataset-16.0.0-SNAPSHOT-sources/arrow_dataset_jni/x86_64/libarrow_dataset_jni.so
```

Those binaries are too large. So we should avoid this.

### Component(s)

Continuous Integration, Java

Comece inspecionando o artefato de release nightly do Java vinculado na issue e reproduza a verificação com `find` no conteúdo do `*-sources.jar`. Rastreie a etapa de CI ou de empacotamento que monta esses arquivos-fonte; considera-se concluído quando os source jars não contiverem mais arquivos `.so`, `.dylib` ou `.dll`.

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