Support inserting row/column defs at specific indices rather than always appending

#### What are you trying to do?

I'm trying to make table with 2 sticky header rows. First row should contain toolbar with table actions, but definition of this row is in separated file, it is passed through `cdkTable.addHeaderRowDef` . Second row should contain descriptions of columns.

#### What troubleshooting steps have you tried?

I tried to manually position `headerRowDefinition` inside `_headerRowDefs` property, but I'm unable to do that due to:
https://github.com/angular/components/blob/d3deb8b9c61f79f6a4ab75d74914aac3b43592bf/src/cdk/table/table.ts#L895
contentHeaderRowDefinitions specified explicit as content are always before customHeaderRowDefinitions added via `addHeaderRowDef`.

I tried to handle stickness by styling headers `postion: sticky` and calculate top positioning, but I'm unable to do that due to: https://github.com/angular/components/blob/d3deb8b9c61f79f6a4ab75d74914aac3b43592bf/src/cdk/table/table.ts#L731
All header rows have cleared top positioning value that I set via styling.

#### Reproduction
https://stackblitz.com/edit/angular-bkarpk?file=src/app/table/table.component.html

#### Environment

- Angular: 11.1.1
- CDK/Material: 11.1.1
- Browser(s): Chrome/Firefox
- Operating System (e.g. Windows, macOS, Ubuntu): Windows

Comienza con las secciones enlazadas de src/cdk/table/table.ts y ejecuta la reproducción proporcionada en StackBlitz. Rastrea cómo se ordenan el contenido y las definiciones personalizadas de filas de encabezado, y cómo se elimina el posicionamiento fijo del encabezado. La tarea estará terminada cuando las definiciones de encabezado puedan aparecer en el índice solicitado y las dos filas de encabezado fijas conserven el posicionamiento correcto.

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