Feature request: autoSaveDelay exclude files ability (e.g. exclude during pom.xml editing)

build goes crazy if you're hand-editing pom.xml and have autosave at the normal 1000 ms

should probably have ability to exclude for modes too (e.g. debugging with hotCodeReplace true) #3353

please add exclude ability (for auto), i.e. fallback to "only on manual save"

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• Visual Studio Code version: 1.83.1
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Steps To Reproduce

1. edit pom.xml with low autoSaveDelay

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Issue 中没有指出源文件、测试或入口点。首先，在 VS Code 中编辑 pom.xml 时将 autoSaveDelay 设为较低值并复现该行为；当自动保存能够排除该文件或模式并回退到手动保存时，即表示完成。