Removing update/patch methods from `UpdateControl`

For v6 we should consider removing the methods from UpdateControl like patchStatus , patchResource etc.

The reason is that it could be rather confusing how those methods exactly do in the background, since we have flags to control their behavior - if they should use Server Side Apply or not for example.

Users can use the directly the Kubernetes client and/or utilities like PrimaryUpdateAndCacheUtils.

We might want to also rename UpdateControl to ReconcileControl.

首先定位 UpdateControl 及其 patchStatus 和 patchResource 方法，然后将它们的行为和 flags 与 Kubernetes 客户端和 PrimaryUpdateAndCacheUtils 进行比较。要视为完成，需要在 v6 中就移除这些方法以及是否将 UpdateControl 重命名为 ReconcileControl 作出最终决定。