Newly created gvim window not focused, existing gvim window is focused instead

Describe the bug
When creating a new gvim window via terminal gvim command, sometimes the new pop-up window doesn't gain focus, instead, the pre-existing gvim window is focused. This causes minor annoyance because user would intuitively think he/she is typing into the new window without checking.

I suspect it has something to do with multi-monitor environment and each monitor has a separate desktop number. Sometimes I typed gvim in the terminal and the new gvim window was opened in another monitor. And in that case often the wrong window was focused. Maybe macvim will focus window instance on the desktop with lowest index number?

Not sure if this is related to #83.

I didn't find out the pattern to reliably reproduce the behavior yet.

To Reproduce
Detailed steps to reproduce the behavior:

1. Open a terminal.
2. Type gvim.
3. A new gvim instance popped up.
4. But the original gvim instance is focused.

Expected behavior
The new gvim instance is focused.

Environment (please complete the following information):

• Vim version: 8.2.2164
• OS: macOS 11.1
• Terminal: iTerm2

Inizia riproducendo il problema di focus con il comando da terminale gvim su macOS 11.1, soprattutto con più monitor e desktop, e confronta il comportamento con issue #83. Il lavoro è completo quando una finestra gvim appena creata riceve sistematicamente il focus invece di una finestra gvim esistente.