feat: ion-refresher "isOpen" flag

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### Describe the Feature Request

Introduce an isOpen flag to ion-refresher component, so we can trigger the refresher via boolean flag from controller.

### Describe the Use Case

We have a lot of pages that trigger an initial load of data when entering the page. For that we want to show a loading state. But additional to that, we also want to provide the possibility to always refresh the data with pull down to refresh. For that we are using ion-refresher.

Now we have two "loading indicators" that we need to handle differently, one spinner that is shown on a flag and the ion-refresher that needs to be completed via an event. It would be great if we could just use ion-refresher for the whole loading indicator on the page alltogether by allowing the component to show and hide the spinner via a boolean flag.

### Describe Preferred Solution

Add isOpen flag similar as done in inline modal https://ionicframework.com/docs/api/modal#using-isopen

### Describe Alternatives

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