feat: Datetime component custom hooks

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### Describe the Feature Request

Hey, it's quite straightforward. It'd be great if somehow we could get custom hooks when certain actions happen inside components that are in the shadow dom. Specifically, in Datetime it would be great to know when the month is being rendered

### Describe the Use Case

I want to be able to add different icons to the datetime calendar depending on whether they have activity or not (coming from an external source.

### Describe Preferred Solution

It should be quite easy:

Add a prop onRenderMonth to the component.

Line 2384 of ionic-framework/core/src/components/datetime/datetime.tsx
`onRenderMonth()
return this.renderMonth(month, year);`

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