feat(memory): add DatabaseMemoryService with SQL backend and agent scratchpad

## Feature Request

Add a durable, SQL-backed `DatabaseMemoryService` to `google-adk-community` as a self-hosted alternative to the volatile `InMemoryMemoryService`.

## Problem

The existing `InMemoryMemoryService` is explicitly test-only and loses all data on process restart. Developers not using Vertex AI RAG or Memory Bank have no persistent, self-hosted memory option out of the box.

Related: #46 (Add self-hosted option to manage working memory)

## Proposed Solution

A `DatabaseMemoryService` backed by SQLAlchemy async — the same ORM pattern already used by `DatabaseSessionService` in the core ADK. This enables any SQLAlchemy-compatible async database (SQLite, PostgreSQL, MySQL, MariaDB) as a memory backend.

### Components

- **`DatabaseMemoryService`** — implements `BaseMemoryService` with lazy table creation, idempotent session ingest (`add_session_to_memory`), and delta event ingestion (`add_events_to_memory`)
- **`MemorySearchBackend` ABC + `KeywordSearchBackend`** — pluggable search with LIKE/ILIKE and AND-first → OR-fallback tokenisation
- **Scratchpad subsystem** — KV store + append-only log exposed as four `BaseTool` subclasses (`ScratchpadGetTool`, `ScratchpadSetTool`, `ScratchpadAppendLogTool`, `ScratchpadGetLogTool`) for agent intermediate working memory

### Usage

```python
from google.adk_community.memory import DatabaseMemoryService
from google.adk_community.tools import scratchpad_get_tool, scratchpad_set_tool

# SQLite (zero config)
memory_service = DatabaseMemoryService("sqlite+aiosqlite:///agent_memory.db")

# PostgreSQL
memory_service = DatabaseMemoryService(
"postgresql+asyncpg://user:pass@host/dbname"
)
```

## Origin

This was originally submitted to `google/adk-python` ([#4736](https://github.com/google/adk-python/pull/4736)) and redirected here by maintainer [@rohityan](https://github.com/google/adk-python/pull/4736#issuecomment-2701940819).

## Implementation

PR: #98