Add db attributes to span data for Java backend spans

### Description

Follow-up from #2893

We're going to matching the [otel db conventions](https://opentelemetry.io/docs/specs/otel/trace/semantic_conventions/database/). Either one of `server.address` or `server.socket.address` is required. If `server.address` is set, then `server.port` should be set. If `server.port` is different than `server.socket.port`, than `server.socket.port` should also be set. In addition, `db.name` should be set if possible. `db.system` should match the list in [OpenTelemetry's well known conventions](https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-specification/blob/main/specification/trace/semantic_conventions/database.md#notes-and-well-known-identifiers-for-dbsystem).

| Attribute | Type | Description | Examples | Requirement Level |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| `server.address` | string | Name of the database host. | `example.com` | Conditionally Required: See alternative attributes below. |
| `server.port` | int | Logical server port number | `80`; `8080`; `443` | Conditionally Required: [1] |
| `server.socket.address` | string | Physical server IP address or Unix socket address. | `10.5.3.2` | See below |
| `server.socket.port` | int | Physical server port. | `16456` | Recommended: If different than `server.port`. |

These values should be set on `span.data`.