Mixed-masked/unmasked-port ReadSyncMem is generated incorrectly when "--repl-seq-mem"

**Type of issue**: Bug Report

**Please provide the steps to reproduce the problem:**

I have attached two write ports to a `ReadSyncMem`. One write port has a mask, and the other one does not have a mask.

```scala
package mylib

import circt.stage.ChiselStage

import chisel3._
import chisel3.util._

class Example extends Module {
val wen = IO(Input(Bool()))
val wen2 = IO(Input(Bool()))
val ren = IO(Input(Bool()))
val addr = IO(Input(UInt(32.W)))
val mask = IO(Input(Vec(2, Bool())))
val din = IO(Input(Vec(2, UInt(8.W))))
val dou = IO(Output(Vec(2, UInt(8.W))))

withClockAndReset(clock, reset) {
val uExampleArray = SyncReadMem(32, din.cloneType, SyncReadMem.ReadFirst)
uExampleArray.suggestName("ArrayA")
when(wen) {
uExampleArray.write(addr, din, mask)
}
when(wen2) {
uExampleArray.write(addr, din)
}
dou := uExampleArray.read(addr, ren)
}
}

object Test extends App {
val targetDir = "generate"

val chiselArgs: Array[String] = Array(f"--target-dir=$targetDir", "--split-verilog")
val firtoolArgs: Array[String] = Array(
// "--disable-all-randomization",
f"-o=$targetDir",
"-repl-seq-mem",
"-repl-seq-mem-circuit=MyChipTop",
"-repl-seq-mem-file=MyChipTop.sv.conf"
)
ChiselStage
.emitSystemVerilogFile(new Example, chiselArgs, firtoolArgs)
println(">>> RTL emitted in \"generate\" directory.")
}
```

**What is the current behavior?**

The generated Verilog is shown as follows.
The input signal mask_X are totally dropped and unused. The generate circuits and the original chisel code have different functions.

```systemverilog
// Generated by CIRCT firtool-1.40.0
module Example( // :3:10
input clock, // :4:11
reset, // :5:11
wen, // mylib/src/Test.scala:9:16
wen2, // mylib/src/Test.scala:10:16
ren, // mylib/src/Test.scala:11:16
input [31:0] addr, // mylib/src/Test.scala:12:16
input mask_0, // mylib/src/Test.scala:13:16
mask_1, // mylib/src/Test.scala:13:16
input [7:0] din_0, // mylib/src/Test.scala:14:16
din_1, // mylib/src/Test.scala:14:16
output [7:0] dou_0, // mylib/src/Test.scala:15:16
dou_1 // mylib/src/Test.scala:15:16
);

wire [15:0] _ArrayA_R0_data; // mylib/src/Test.scala:18:36
wire [15:0] _GEN = {din_1, din_0}; // mylib/src/Test.scala:18:36
ArrayA ArrayA ( // mylib/src/Test.scala:18:36
.R0_addr (addr[4:0]), // mylib/src/Test.scala:26:30
.R0_en (ren),
.R0_clk (clock),
.W0_addr (addr[4:0]), // mylib/src/Test.scala:21:26
.W0_en (wen),
.W0_clk (clock),
.W0_data (_GEN), // mylib/src/Test.scala:18:36
.W1_addr (addr[4:0]), // mylib/src/Test.scala:24:26
.W1_en (wen2),
.W1_clk (clock),
.W1_data (_GEN), // mylib/src/Test.scala:18:36
.R0_data (_ArrayA_R0_data)
);
assign dou_0 = _ArrayA_R0_data[7:0]; // :3:10, mylib/src/Test.scala:18:36
assign dou_1 = _ArrayA_R0_data[15:8]; // :3:10, mylib/src/Test.scala:18:36
endmodule
```

The generated --repl-seq-mem conf file "MyChipTop.sv.conf" as well as metadata/seq_mems.json are also wrong.

**What is the expected behavior?**

1. Exit when compliation/elaboration, and throw an error message like "Chisel cannot mix masked and unmasked ports."
2. Generate a memory with two masked write ports. and one is connected to `mask`, and the other is set to 0 ( means always enable ).

**Please tell us about your environment:**
Firtool 1.40
Chisel 5.0.0-RC2
on macOS, OpenJDK17.

**Other Information**

**What is the use case for changing the behavior?**