[Discussion] setPage should not trigger onPageSelected event

# Bug

We are storing and updating the active index of the ViewPager in Redux. When the user swipes to another page the `onPageSelected` event is correctly triggered and the active index will be updated like that:

```
setActiveIndex(nativeEvent.position)}
style={[styles.pager, { width }]}
initialPage={0}
>
```

But we also want to set the page programatically when the active index is changed by some other component. To achieve this we are using an useEffect hook like this:

```
useEffect(() => {
pager.current && pager.current.setPageWithoutAnimation(activeIndex);
}, [activeIndex]);
```

Unfortunately calling `setPageWithoutAnimation` triggers another `onPageSelected` event which updates the active index which triggers the `useEffect` hook and so on.

We think that there should be no `onPageSelected` event triggered when setting the page programatically.

## Environment info

React native info output:

```bash
System:
OS: macOS Mojave 10.14.6
CPU: (4) x64 Intel(R) Core(TM) i5-7360U CPU @ 2.30GHz
Memory: 5.96 GB / 16.00 GB
Shell: 3.2.57 - /bin/bash
Binaries:
Node: 10.16.3 - ~/.nvm/versions/node/v10.16.3/bin/node
Yarn: 1.19.1 - /usr/local/bin/yarn
npm: 6.13.1 - ~/.nvm/versions/node/v10.16.3/bin/npm
Watchman: 4.9.0 - /usr/local/bin/watchman
SDKs:
iOS SDK:
Platforms: iOS 13.2, DriverKit 19.0, macOS 10.15, tvOS 13.2, watchOS 6.1
Android SDK:
API Levels: 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28
Build Tools: 23.0.1, 25.0.2, 25.0.3, 26.0.1, 26.0.2, 26.0.3, 27.0.3, 28.0.1, 28.0.3, 29.0.2
System Images: android-19 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom, android-21 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom_64, android-22 | Intel x86 Atom_64, android-22 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom_64, android-23 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom_64, android-26 | Intel x86 Atom_64, android-27 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom, android-28 | Google APIs Intel x86 Atom
Android NDK: 20.1.5948944
IDEs:
Android Studio: 3.5 AI-191.8026.42.35.6010548
Xcode: 11.3/11C29 - /usr/bin/xcodebuild
npmPackages:
react: 16.9.0 => 16.9.0
react-native: 0.61.5 => 0.61.5
```

Library version: 3.3.0

Commencez par suivre les points d’entrée setPageWithoutAnimation et onPageSelected dans les implémentations React Native, iOS et Android. Reproduisez la boucle de rétroaction signalée, puis vérifiez que les changements de page programmatiques n’émettent plus onPageSelected, tandis que les balayages de l’utilisateur continuent de mettre à jour l’index actif.

Rédigé par le modèle d'indexation à partir du texte de l'issue.