[C++][Parquet] Crash at parquet::TypedColumnWriterImpl<>::WriteBatchSpaced

I got this crash from our customer machine: [parquet_crash_WriteBatchSpaced.txt](parquet_crash_WriteBatchSpaced.txt) , it crashes continuously every time my application opens a parquet file and write the first row group. It happens only on one machine and runs fine on others until now. I cannot reproduce it.

I access the parquet file on only one thread, so you can eliminate the case of race condition. Do you have any idea about this crash report? 

**Reporter**: [Tham](https://issues.apache.org/jira/secure/ViewProfile.jspa?name=thamha) / @thamht4190
#### Original Issue Attachments:
- [parquet_crash_WriteBatchSpaced.txt](https://issues.apache.org/jira/secure/attachment/13021929/parquet_crash_WriteBatchSpaced.txt)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [PARQUET-1995](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/PARQUET-1995). Please see the [migration documentation](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/PARQUET-2502) for further details.*}

Start with the attached parquet_crash_WriteBatchSpaced.txt report and the parquet::TypedColumnWriterImpl<>::WriteBatchSpaced crash described in the issue. Investigate whether the failure can be reproduced on the affected machine, then identify the cause and add a regression test if a reliable case can be established.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.