[Bug] Nullability validation incorrectly checks children masked by null parents

### Search before asking

- [x] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/paimon-cpp/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Paimon-cpp version

master

### Minimal reproduce step

`ArrowUtils::CheckNullabilityMatch` recursively checks complete Arrow child arrays.

For nested Arrow types, a null parent may still have physical child values. These
children are logically hidden and should not participate in nullability validation.
However, if a hidden child is null and its field is non-nullable, the current
implementation rejects the batch.

This affects nested STRUCT, LIST, MAP, and VECTOR fields and is inconsistent with
Java's logical row semantics.

### What doesn't meet your expectations?

Expected behavior:

- Ignore child values masked by a null parent.
- Reject null children when the parent is valid and the child is logically visible.

### Anything else?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [x] I'm willing to submit a PR!

首先定位 ArrowUtils::CheckNullabilityMatch，以及覆盖嵌套 STRUCT、LIST、MAP 和 VECTOR 数组的测试。验证 null 父级包含物理上为 null 的子级的情况，以及有效父级暴露 null 子级的情况；完成的标准是忽略被屏蔽的子级，同时拒绝可见的非 nullable 子级。

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