[Feature] Support Lance file format

### Search before asking

- [x] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/paimon-cpp/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Motivation

Apache Paimon Java supports Lance as a data file format through the paimon-lance module. Paimon C++ currently cannot read or write tables configured with file.format=lance, which prevents Java and C++ engines from interoperating on those tables.

### Solution

Add optional Lance file format support to Paimon C++, aligned with the Java implementation and Lance 0.39.0:

- register a Lance file format factory behind a disabled-by-default CMake option;
- support reading and writing Lance files through the existing file format interfaces;
- support column projection, precise row selection, row counts, and file row-id reporting;
- validate the same supported and unsupported logical types as Java;
- add C++ round-trip tests and Java/C++ compatibility fixtures in both directions.

The implementation should follow the existing Mosaic Rust FFI integration and lifecycle patterns.

### Anything else?

Java reference module: https://github.com/apache/paimon/tree/master/paimon-lance

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [x] I am willing to submit a PR!

首先阅读现有的 Mosaic Rust FFI 集成和生命周期模式，然后对比 paimon-lance 中的 Java 参考模块，并检查现有的文件格式接口。完成的标准是：一个默认禁用的可选 CMake 集成支持 Lance 的读取和写入、所需的投影和行选择、行元数据、逻辑类型验证、往返测试以及 Java/C++ 兼容性 fixtures。

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