[Bug] Error WALBuffer....WAL-Recover Fail to allocate wal node....OutOfMemoryError: Cannot reserve 16777216 bytes of direct buffer memory (allocated: 469771426, limit: 471859200)

### Search before asking

- [X] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/iotdb/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Version

1.3.0
3C3D

### Describe the bug and provide the minimal reproduce step

We upped the JVM memory and still reported this error

### What did you expect to see?

Cluster running properly

### What did you see instead?

We can expand the memory

### Anything else?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [X] I'm willing to submit a PR!

Start by reproducing WAL recovery on IoTDB 1.3.0 in the reported 3C3D setup and trace the WAL node allocation that fails with the direct-buffer OutOfMemoryError. Done means the cluster recovers and runs properly without the WAL allocation failure, including when JVM memory is increased.

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