Add serde support for advanced WriterProperties

### Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

PR https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/pull/8627 adds serde support for WriterProperties but did not cover the following advanced options, as documented in `datafusion.proto`:

```
// TODO add advanced writer options
// key_value_metadata: Option>,
// default_column_properties: ColumnProperties,
// column_properties: HashMap,
// sorting_columns: Option>,
// column_index_truncate_length: Option,
```

### Describe the solution you'd like

Add serde support for these options.

### Describe alternatives you've considered

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### Additional context

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Start with the serde implementation added by PR 8627 and the advanced writer options listed in datafusion.proto. Trace how WriterProperties is represented, then cover key_value_metadata, default_column_properties, column_properties, sorting_columns, and column_index_truncate_length; done means each listed option supports serde consistently with the existing properties.

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