Improvements to ` BooleanGroupValueBuilder` (grouping by boolean columns)

### Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

@ashdnazg added an optimized `BooleanGroupValueBuilder` in https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/17726, and @rluvaton had several ideas for a follow on optimizations:

https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/17726/files#r2387673598

> Because this is a slice and not buffer this limit optimizations in my optimization for creating optimized version for all uniuqe, for example for non nullable checking if 2 arrays are the same is simple NOT XOR

https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/17726/files#r2387686684

> I will try to change it to MutableBooleanBuffer or something in the future to allow for more optimizations

### Describe the solution you'd like

This ticket tracks improving the performance of the `BooleanGroupValueBuilder`, perhaps using @rluvaton 's suggestions

### Describe alternatives you've considered

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### Additional context

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