Benchmark / program to test Spilling Sorts

### Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

- Part of https://github.com/apache/datafusion/issues/15271

There are many interesting ideas on how to improve DataFusion while spilling for example https://github.com/apache/datafusion/issues/15271 from @2010YOUY01 and others.

What I think we really need next to make progress in this area is a benchmark / agreed upon way of measuring our progress so that we can improve and

### Describe the solution you'd like

I would like a documented command / set of commands that is:
1. Easy to run (and thus fast to test / iterate on)
2. Exercises the spilling feature at different levels of memory pressure
3. Spends most of its time sorting/spilling/merging (not generating output for example)

### Describe alternatives you've considered

idea 1: can use some `datafusion-cli` features / flags and document them

Idea 2: Add a new suite to bench.sh / `dfbench`: https://github.com/apache/datafusion/tree/main/benchmarks

As for what to do I suggest something relatively simple like sorting the TPCH lineitem table with 200MB, 500MB, 1GB, 5GB and 10GB of memory for example

### Additional context

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Inizia confrontando l’approccio di datafusion-cli con benchmarks/bench.sh e le opzioni di dfbench menzionate nell’issue. Usa l’esempio di ordinamento di TPCH lineitem e prova limiti di memoria da 200MB a 10GB, assicurandoti che il benchmark impieghi il proprio tempo nell’ordinamento, nello spilling e nella fusione anziché nella generazione dell’output. Il lavoro è completo quando esiste un comando o un insieme di comandi documentato e ripetibile per misurare i progressi di spilling-sort.

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