Reduce copying in `CoalesceBatchesExec` for StringViews

### Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

In pictures, what https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/11587 does is like
this (to ensure lots of unreachable "garbage" does not accumulate in the output batch)

```
┌────────────────────┐
│ RecordBatch │ ┌────────────────────┐
│ num_rows = 23 │ │ RecordBatch │
└────────────────────┘ │ num_rows = 23 │ ┌────────────────────┐
└────────────────────┘ │ │
┌────────────────────┐ Coalesce │ │
│ │ StringView::gc ┌────────────────────┐ Batches │ │
│ RecordBatch │ │ RecordBatch │ │ │
│ num_rows = 50 │ │ num_rows = 50 │ ─ ─ ─ ─ ─▶ │ │
│ │ ─ ─ ─ ─ ─▶ │ │ │ RecordBatch │
│ │ └────────────────────┘ │ num_rows = 106 │
└────────────────────┘ │ │
│ │
┌────────────────────┐ ┌────────────────────┐ │ │
│ │ │ RecordBatch │ │ │
│ RecordBatch │ │ num_rows = 33 │ │ │
│ num_rows = 33 │ │ │ └────────────────────┘
│ │ └────────────────────┘
└────────────────────┘
```

However, as @2010YOUY01 pointed out in https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/11587/files#r1686678665

> So here inside gc string buffer will be copied once, (below) in
> concat_batches() string buffer will be copied again, it seems possible to copy
> only once by changing the internal implementation of concat_batches()

This implementation will effectively copy the data twice -- once for the call to
`gc` and once for the call coalsece batches.

Due to the nature of `StringView` the actual strings vaules are only copied once, but the `u128` view value will be copied twice

### Describe the solution you'd like

Somehow structure the code to avoid copying the views again. Like this

```
┌────────────────────┐
│ RecordBatch │
│ num_rows = 23 │ ┌────────────────────┐
└────────────────────┘ │ │
StringView::gc │ │
┌────────────────────┐ and Coalesce │ │
│ │ Batches in same │ │
│ RecordBatch │ operation │ │
│ num_rows = 50 │ │ RecordBatch │
│ │ ─ ─ ─ ─ ─▶ │ num_rows = 106 │
│ │ │ │
└────────────────────┘ │ │
│ │
┌────────────────────┐ │ │
│ │ │ │
│ RecordBatch │ └────────────────────┘
│ num_rows = 33 │
│ │
└────────────────────┘
```

### Describe alternatives you've considered

https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/11587/files#r1687099239

> I think given how concat is implemented for `StringView` it will only copy the fixed parts (not the actual string data)
>
> Perhaps what we could do is implement a wrapper around arrow::concat_batches that has the datafusion specific GC trigger for sparse arrays, and falls back to concat for other types: https://docs.rs/arrow-select/52.1.0/src/arrow_select/concat.rs.html#150
>
> ```rust
> /// wrapper around [`arrow::compute::concat`] that
> pub fn concat(arrays: &[&dyn Array]) -> Result {
> // loop over columns here and handle StringView specially,
> // or fallback to concat
> }
> ```

### Additional context

https://github.com/apache/datafusion/issues/7957 is another related idea for avoding copies

Inizia leggendo CoalesceBatchesExec e l’implementazione di concat_batches, quindi esamina la PR 11587 e la discussione correlata su StringView::gc. Determina come vengono attualmente gestiti gli array di StringView e se la garbage collection e la concatenazione dei batch possono condividere un’unica operazione. Il lavoro è completato quando si evita la seconda copia dei valori u128 di StringView mantenendo il comportamento esistente dei batch.

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