[JAVA] Use prepared statement leads Memory leak

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

Hi arrow maintainer, i find some memory leak in my flight-sql usage. I use arrow-16.0.0, and works on AMD Ryzen 3970X machine.
```java
package org.example;

import org.apache.arrow.flight.*;
import org.apache.arrow.flight.grpc.CredentialCallOption;
import org.apache.arrow.flight.sql.FlightSqlClient;
import org.apache.arrow.memory.BufferAllocator;
import org.apache.arrow.memory.RootAllocator;
import org.apache.arrow.vector.*;
import org.apache.arrow.vector.types.pojo.Field;
import org.slf4j.Logger;
import org.slf4j.LoggerFactory;

import java.util.*;

public class SqlRunner {

private static final Logger log = LoggerFactory.getLogger(SqlRunner.class);

static void run_flight_sql() throws Exception {
try (BufferAllocator allocator = new RootAllocator(Integer.MAX_VALUE)) {
final Location clientLocation = Location.forGrpcInsecure("127.0.0.1", 8360);
try (FlightClient client = FlightClient.builder(allocator, clientLocation).build();
FlightSqlClient sqlClient = new FlightSqlClient(client)) {

Optional credentialCallOption = client.authenticateBasicToken("admin", "public");
CallHeaders headers = new FlightCallHeaders();
headers.insert("database", "test");

Set options = new HashSet<>();
credentialCallOption.ifPresent(options::add);
options.add(new HeaderCallOption(headers));
// use the sql to query is ok
try {
String query = "SELECT count(*) from test.sx1;";
executeQuery(sqlClient, query, options);
} catch (Exception e){
e.printStackTrace();
throw e;
}

// where memory leak happens
try {
try (FlightSqlClient.PreparedStatement preparedStatement = sqlClient.prepare("insert into table sx1 (sid, value, flag) values(?, ?, ?);", options.toArray(new CallOption[0]))) {
insertBatch(sqlClient, preparedStatement, allocator, options);
}
} catch (Exception e){
e.printStackTrace();
}
}
}
}

private static void executeQuery(FlightSqlClient sqlClient, String query, Set options) throws Exception {
final FlightInfo info = sqlClient.execute(query, options.toArray(new CallOption[0]));
final Ticket ticket = info.getEndpoints().get(0).getTicket();
try (FlightStream stream = sqlClient.getStream(ticket, options.toArray(new CallOption[0]))) {
while (stream.next()) {
try (VectorSchemaRoot schemaRoot = stream.getRoot()) {
log.info(schemaRoot.contentToTSVString());
}
}
}
}

private static void insertBatch(FlightSqlClient sqlClient, FlightSqlClient.PreparedStatement preparedStatement, BufferAllocator allocator, Set options) throws Exception {
try (IntVector sids = new IntVector("sid", allocator);
Float4Vector values = new Float4Vector("value", allocator);
TinyIntVector flags = new TinyIntVector("flag", allocator)) {

sids.allocateNew(100);
values.allocateNew(100);
flags.allocateNew(100);

for (int i = 0; i < 100; i++) {
sids.setSafe(i, i);
values.setSafe(i, (float) i);
flags.setSafe(i, (byte) i);
}

List fields = Arrays.asList(sids.getField(), values.getField(), flags.getField());
List fieldVectors = Arrays.asList(sids, values, flags);
try (VectorSchemaRoot vectorSchemaRoot = new VectorSchemaRoot(fields, fieldVectors)){
vectorSchemaRoot.setRowCount(100);

preparedStatement.setParameters(vectorSchemaRoot);
FlightInfo info = preparedStatement.execute();

final Ticket ticket = info.getEndpoints().get(0).getTicket();
try (FlightStream stream = sqlClient.getStream(ticket, options.toArray(new CallOption[0]))) {
while (stream.next()) {
try (VectorSchemaRoot schemaRoot = stream.getRoot()) {
List vectors = schemaRoot.getFieldVectors();
for (int i = 0; i < vectors.size(); i++) {
System.out.printf("%d %s\n", i, vectors.get(i));
}
}
}
}
preparedStatement.clearParameters();
}
}
}

public static void main(String[] args) throws Exception {
run_flight_sql();
}
}
```

That's the memory allocator verboseString, is it a bug? or server side bad implement?
```bash
=================================================================
Allocator(ROOT) 0/16/1424/2147483647 (res/actual/peak/limit)
child allocators: 1
Allocator(flight-client) 0/16/272/9223372036854775807 (res/actual/peak/limit)
child allocators: 0
ledgers: 1
ledger[6] allocator: flight-client), isOwning: , size: , references: 1, life: 1242736490302663..0, allocatorManager: [, life: ] holds 1 buffers.
ArrowBuf[23], address:139720841494544, capacity:16
event log for: ArrowBuf[23]
1242736490544534 create()
at org.apache.arrow.memory.util.HistoricalLog$Event.(HistoricalLog.java:180)
at org.apache.arrow.memory.util.HistoricalLog.recordEvent(HistoricalLog.java:85)
at org.apache.arrow.memory.ArrowBuf.(ArrowBuf.java:98)
at org.apache.arrow.memory.BufferLedger.newArrowBuf(BufferLedger.java:259)
at org.apache.arrow.memory.BaseAllocator.bufferWithoutReservation(BaseAllocator.java:352)
at org.apache.arrow.memory.BaseAllocator.buffer(BaseAllocator.java:328)
at org.apache.arrow.memory.BaseAllocator.buffer(BaseAllocator.java:291)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.PutResult.fromProtocol(PutResult.java:82)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightClient$SetStreamObserver.onNext(FlightClient.java:466)
at org.apache.arrow.flight.FlightClient$SetStreamObserver.onNext(FlightClient.java:454)
at io.grpc.stub.ClientCalls$StreamObserverToCallListenerAdapter.onMessage(ClientCalls.java:468)
at io.grpc.ForwardingClientCallListener.onMessage(ForwardingClientCallListener.java:33)
at io.grpc.internal.ClientCallImpl$ClientStreamListenerImpl$1MessagesAvailable.runInternal(ClientCallImpl.java:657)
at io.grpc.internal.ClientCallImpl$ClientStreamListenerImpl$1MessagesAvailable.runInContext(ClientCallImpl.java:644)
at io.grpc.internal.ContextRunnable.run(ContextRunnable.java:37)
at io.grpc.internal.SerializingExecutor.run(SerializingExecutor.java:133)
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:1149)
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:624)
at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:750)

reservations: 0
ledgers: 0
reservations: 0

=================================================================
```

### Component(s)

Java

Reproduce the prepared-statement flow in the supplied Java example and inspect the allocator output after run_flight_sql completes. Start with org.apache.arrow.flight.PutResult.fromProtocol and the FlightClient.SetStreamObserver.onNext stack frames, then compare the query and prepared-statement paths. Done means determining whether the remaining ArrowBuf is client-side or server-side and documenting or fixing its ownership.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.