ListVector#getBuffers returns buffers in the wrong order for usage of VectorLoader

Calling [getBuffers](https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/06ca00c2daeeb0d6461e7b6bec51679c19b5b92b/java/vector/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/vector/complex/ListVector.java#L652-L653) on a ListVector adds the offsetBuffers first and the validityBuffer second. When a ListVector is populated by [loadFieldBuffers](https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/06ca00c2daeeb0d6461e7b6bec51679c19b5b92b/java/vector/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/vector/complex/ListVector.java#L183-L189) (e.g. via a VectorLoader), the validityBuffer is read first and the offsetBuffer is read second. The resulting vector represents different data than the originating vector.

**Reporter**: [Paul Horn](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-16377)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-16377](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-16377). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

从 java/vector/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/vector/complex/ListVector.java 开始，同时阅读 getBuffers 和 loadFieldBuffers，然后跟踪 VectorLoader 如何使用这些缓冲区。当一个由 getBuffers 序列化并通过 loadFieldBuffers 加载的 ListVector 表示相同的数据，并且 validity 缓冲区和 offset 缓冲区得到一致处理时，即视为完成。

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