[Java][Windows] Intermittent failure to run unit test (failed: Error occurred in starting fork)

There are some cases when Java modules are running unit test on Windows server and finished with errors (i.e https://github.com/apache/arrow/actions/runs/3191692688/jobs/5208306317).

 
```java

[INFO] Arrow Memory - Netty ............................... FAILURE [ 9.975 s]
820

[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
835[INFO] BUILD FAILURE
836[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
837[INFO] Total time: 45.950 s (Wall Clock)
838[INFO] Finished at: 2022-10-05T18:25:21Z
839[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
840Error: Failed to execute goal org.apache.maven.plugins:maven-surefire-plugin:3.0.0-M7:test (default-test) on project arrow-memory-netty:
841Error:
842Error: Please refer to D:\a\arrow\arrow\java\memory\memory-netty\target\surefire-reports for the individual test results.
843Error: Please refer to dump files (if any exist) [date].dump, [date]-jvmRun[N].dump and [date].dumpstream.
844Error: ExecutionException The forked VM terminated without properly saying goodbye. VM crash or System.exit called?
845Error: Command was cmd.exe /X /C "C:\hostedtoolcache\windows\Java_Temurin-Hotspot_jdk\11.0.16-101\x64\bin\java --add-opens=java.base/java.nio=ALL-UNNAMED -jar C:\Users\runneradmin\AppData\Local\Temp\surefire10687308957494794092\surefirebooter-20221005182515867_28.jar C:\Users\runneradmin\AppData\Local\Temp\surefire10687308957494794092 2022-10-05T18-25-03_889-jvmRun2 surefire-20221005182515867_26tmp surefire_2-20221005182515867_27tmp"
846Error: Error occurred in starting fork, check output in log
847Error: Process Exit Code: -1073740940
848Error: org.apache.maven.surefire.booter.SurefireBooterForkException: ExecutionException The forked VM terminated without properly saying goodbye. VM crash or System.exit called?
849Error: Command was cmd.exe /X /C "C:\hostedtoolcache\windows\Java_Temurin-Hotspot_jdk\11.0.16-101\x64\bin\java --add-opens=java.base/java.nio=ALL-UNNAMED -jar C:\Users\runneradmin\AppData\Local\Temp\surefire10687308957494794092\surefirebooter-20221005182515867_28.jar C:\Users\runneradmin\AppData\Local\Temp\surefire10687308957494794092 2022-10-05T18-25-03_889-jvmRun2 surefire-20221005182515867_26tmp surefire_2-20221005182515867_27tmp"
850Error: Error occurred in starting fork, check output in log
851Error: Process Exit Code: -1073740940
852Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.booterclient.ForkStarter.awaitResultsDone(ForkStarter.java:513)
853Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.booterclient.ForkStarter.runSuitesForkOnceMultiple(ForkStarter.java:397)
854Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.booterclient.ForkStarter.run(ForkStarter.java:326)
855Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.booterclient.ForkStarter.run(ForkStarter.java:269)
856Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.AbstractSurefireMojo.executeProvider(AbstractSurefireMojo.java:1334)
857Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.AbstractSurefireMojo.executeAfterPreconditionsChecked(AbstractSurefireMojo.java:1167)
858Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.AbstractSurefireMojo.execute(AbstractSurefireMojo.java:931)
859Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.DefaultBuildPluginManager.executeMojo(DefaultBuildPluginManager.java:137)
860Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.MojoExecutor.doExecute2(MojoExecutor.java:370)
861Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.MojoExecutor.doExecute(MojoExecutor.java:351)
862Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.MojoExecutor.execute(MojoExecutor.java:215)
863Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.MojoExecutor.execute(MojoExecutor.java:171)
864Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.MojoExecutor.execute(MojoExecutor.java:163)
865Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.LifecycleModuleBuilder.buildProject(LifecycleModuleBuilder.java:117)
866Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.builder.multithreaded.MultiThreadedBuilder$1.call(MultiThreadedBuilder.java:210)
867Error: at org.apache.maven.lifecycle.internal.builder.multithreaded.MultiThreadedBuilder$1.call(MultiThreadedBuilder.java:195)
868Error: at java.base/java.util.concurrent.FutureTask.run(FutureTask.java:264)
869Error: at java.base/java.util.concurrent.Executors$RunnableAdapter.call(Executors.java:515)
870Error: at java.base/java.util.concurrent.FutureTask.run(FutureTask.java:264)
871Error: at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:1128)
872Error: at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:628)
873Error: at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:829)
874Error: Caused by: org.apache.maven.surefire.booter.SurefireBooterForkException: The forked VM terminated without properly saying goodbye. VM crash or System.exit called?
875Error: Command was cmd.exe /X /C "C:\hostedtoolcache\windows\Java_Temurin-Hotspot_jdk\11.0.16-101\x64\bin\java --add-opens=java.base/java.nio=ALL-UNNAMED -jar C:\Users\runneradmin\AppData\Local\Temp\surefire10687308957494794092\surefirebooter-20221005182515867_28.jar C:\Users\runneradmin\AppData\Local\Temp\surefire10687308957494794092 2022-10-05T18-25-03_889-jvmRun2 surefire-20221005182515867_26tmp surefire_2-20221005182515867_27tmp"
876Error: Error occurred in starting fork, check output in log
877Error: Process Exit Code: -1073740940
878Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.booterclient.ForkStarter.fork(ForkStarter.java:714)
879Error: at org.apache.maven.plugin.surefire.booterclient.ForkStarter.lambda$runSuitesForkOnceMultiple$3(ForkStarter.java:388)
880Error: ... 4 more
881Error: -> [Help 1]
882Error:
883Error: To see the full stack trace of the errors, re-run Maven with the -e switch.
884Error: Re-run Maven using the -X switch to enable full debug logging.
885Error:
886Error: For more information about the errors and possible solutions, please read the following articles:
887Error: [Help 1] http://cwiki.apache.org/confluence/display/MAVEN/MojoExecutionException
888Error:
889Error: After correcting the problems, you can resume the build with the command
890Error: mvn -rf :arrow-memory-netty
891Error: Process completed with exit code 1.
```

**Reporter**: [David Dali Susanibar Arce](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17947) / @davisusanibar

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-17947](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17947). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

Reproduce the Windows failure in the Java modules, focusing on the arrow-memory-netty test run and the Maven Surefire fork error. Start with the linked GitHub Actions job and inspect java/memory/memory-netty/target/surefire-reports and any dump files. Done means the intermittent Windows unit-test failure is identified and the affected test run completes reliably.

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